You Can’t Hurt Me….I’m made of Irony.

"Yesterday I spent the afternoon at the courthouse together with my ex going through the motions of filing for divorce so I thought I would mark the occasion with a short blog regarding my experience.  I don't normally write about the particular events or people in my life, but today, it seems appropriate.  I thought … Continue reading You Can’t Hurt Me….I’m made of Irony.

Evolution of 3 Words Never Spoken

I wasn't ready to share this before, time's handiwork allowed for healing and beauty in being raw and real. I share because its story has been told many times over. I and love miss am over and you. Hypnotic in its stare, the computer screen sits before me flashing its cursor, anxious for movement; waiting... waiting... waiting... … Continue reading Evolution of 3 Words Never Spoken


I read this posting again and had to laugh at how true it is….. sometimes I’m hilarious 😛

Vanessa Spark

Where did yesterday go?

Actually never mind yesterday, where did the last year go? or the last 10 years?

It seems that 10 years ago life was much simpler. My son was a year old, my husband and I had just bought our first house and I was a stay at home new mom juggling the joys and pains of motherhood and learning life with the love of my life.

Somewhere between then and now as our family grew, so did our priorities and responsibilities; so much so communication became lost in translation ultimately causing blurred “vision” or development of completely opposing definitions of the order of priority placement. Denial’s slippery finger prided itself in the cracks of the foundation that was my family and it wiggled and wiggled until what we thought was solid ground, was fractured.

I am now a single mom but by no means am I…

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