Ode to Man on Valentines Day

Woman. What a curious creature we are! Historically, we have had built and broken kingdoms. Monuments have been built in our honour. Prose have been penned in mourning both battle of war and heart. We bore the very men who have bled for us, fought for us and died for us. Men have loved us, not … Continue reading Ode to Man on Valentines Day

You Can’t Hurt Me….I’m made of Irony.

"Yesterday I spent the afternoon at the courthouse together with my ex going through the motions of filing for divorce so I thought I would mark the occasion with a short blog regarding my experience.  I don't normally write about the particular events or people in my life, but today, it seems appropriate.  I thought … Continue reading You Can’t Hurt Me….I’m made of Irony.

Evolution of 3 Words Never Spoken

I wasn't ready to share this before, time's handiwork allowed for healing and beauty in being raw and real. I share because its story has been told many times over. I and love miss am over and you. Hypnotic in its stare, the computer screen sits before me flashing its cursor, anxious for movement; waiting... waiting... waiting... … Continue reading Evolution of 3 Words Never Spoken

The Cinderella Rule

THE CINDERELLA RULE Over the past few years I have created some personal "rules of engagement" in order to govern and control Vanessa and the events that seems to ride in on life via her chaotic coattails. My motivation and intention of applying these rules come from a sense of responsibility, integrity and moral fortitude. … Continue reading The Cinderella Rule

Confessions – Vanessa Spark and her Sister Luce Bianchi

Unlike most of my blogs published and unpublished, my writings usually muse and rant over a raw heart, fresh from some traumatic event that usually occurs when you mix boys and vulnerability together.  This little diddy however is dedicated to my step sister Tracie Gillis.  Like Cinderella and her struggles in life, love and….. mice, … Continue reading Confessions – Vanessa Spark and her Sister Luce Bianchi

Here’s to New Endings in 2014

I truly believe in the value of new beginnings, fresh starts, do-over’s, mulligan’s and game-on’s. Everyone and everything deserves a second chance or have the opportunity for change. The thing I think that most people forget sometimes in order to achieve change we must acknowledge the past or the history that has brought us to … Continue reading Here’s to New Endings in 2014